‘Whisper words of wisdom, let it be.’ ~ The Beatles
If you pick at a scab, it will never heal. Just let it be. When you simply observe it, it gradually dissolves and vanishes back into its source, the body. In the same way, if you try to remove some distasteful personality trait, like a bad temper or the tendency to judge others harshly, it will never go away. Just let it be. Simply observe it from the core of your being – that knowing aware presence we call ‘I’. Your temper, judgments, or whatever it is – the particular issue doesn’t matter – will arise, linger for a while, then dissolve and vanish back into its source, the one source that all of us share in common – unlimited consciousness. This is the nature of all experience.